
Here are 33 specific situations where a woman says "no"
and how to turn them into "YES."Why I said "no" to a man who had everything.
I always dated successful men, wealthy men, rich men. I was looking for a suitable husband. But here I want to describe a relationship when I lived with a man you would call a winner. Money check. Status check. Connections check. Determination check. Together for 5 years. He proposed to me twice. And I refused twice. Now it's going to get uncomfortable. Because the problem wasn't money. And it wasn't that he "didn't try hard enough." The problem was that he was certain: his level was enough for me to say "yes."
The male illusion: "If I'm strong or rich she's obligated to choose me." No. Strong doesn't mean close. Wealthy doesn't mean suitable. Confident doesn't mean emotionally present. He built the relationship like a project. Logically. Consistently. Rationally. But you can't win a woman with strategy. You need to be in connection with her